Raising Your Vibration To Heal from a Narcissist | Ep 105

with Jaguar Womban

“Find your authentic voice and neither of us will get trapped in the game!!!” 

— Jaguar Womban Ep 105 on Empath and the Narcissist podcast
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Doing the Inner Work to heal through the womb and stop attracting the Narcissist and find the magic of flow in your life is key to attracting peace, love and abundance.

Today I share a conversation with Jaguar Womban.

Ep 105 Raising your Vibration to Heal from a Narcissist with Jaguar Womban

Jaguar Womban is a multidimensional healing artist, Medicine Womban and Visionary Mother of The WombNation. 

Here are some key moments:

Trauma is not the only way to transform

Being abused sucks and so many find a way to heal through it. But transformation can be birthed out of discipline, growth and a healthy space also. 

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Authenticity & responsibility is the key to healing

The collective narrative of what is acceptable, what is beauty, what is success is just an opinion. It is not the way. And when the narcissist plays into that identity and is not authentically accepting of themselves and takes from others to feel whole, it invokes pain and trauma. And do not take one fraction of responsibility for their actions. 

On the flip side, when the empath contorts to the image of what is beautiful and acceptable to be loved by those on the outside, they play into this culture game as well. And accept the pain and trauma of the toxic choices to be loved and accepted. And do not take responsibility for their part and hold on to their identity as the victim. 

Both sides of the coin must take responsibility for their choices and actions to induce trauma and to take trauma. Then, and only then can healing and transformation occur. 

Release in ceremony

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You can release in ceremony, through the body, through feeling. And talking it all out doesn’t fully work. 

The white man psychoanalysis works for a time. This is one piece of the puzzle to healing. The first step is to recognize and affirm with words. Then the next step is to to fully release the pain and trauma stuck in your body. It must be done through the body through indigenous ceremony. 

The indigenous cultures are connected to the land, to the spirits and the soul. Some call it witchcraft, some call it ignorant. But I call it, returning to the language of the Planet. — of the Earth. No words are needed to hear your cries and feel your pain. She takes it for you and composts it into new life and new breath. 

“When in doubt zoom out.” — Jaguar Womban

Giving it up to higher power let it pull it from us is the magic.

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“The universe inherently maintains balance: If there is a collective wound, there is a matching energy to collectively heal it and pull it from us. That’s the magic of the journey.”

 — Jaguar Womban

The Narcissist, the Empath, the Abuser, the Victim, they are all human. They all have a soul. They all carry energy within them. That thread of commonality is all the Universe/ God needs to pull out the darkness and the pain, in order to heal and bring forth light and transformation. 

We ALL benefit from diversity

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In this conversation, we dive into birthing, and the womb space as Jaguar is a midwife and facilitates in birthing naturally. The homogenous belief that we must do this sacred, ancient life altering act in one way under fluorescent lights and on our backs is not beneficial for ALL. Just as in anything or any act. It is never “My way or the highway.” 

Diversity in doing things benefits us all in many ways, for many reasons. We all come from different walks of life, and contrary to what an egotistical narcissist believes, one way is NOT always best. 

Many minds come to form strong communities, just as many strands of twine come to form a rope. 

Like it or not, we are an interconnected, international world now. We must learn about each other’s different perspectives, learn from them, and mix them together in a balance of respect, and admiration. 

Get Natural

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Plants, and nature are our first ways human connected to their environment. They provided food, shelter, and medicine. Just being in nature calms your mind, body, and nerves. 

If you are feeling intense emotions and PTSD. Get out in nature, get natural in your lifestyle. And tune into the cycles of the Sun and Moon. 

I personally have embraced this lifestyle of eating whole foods as much as possible, turning my phone off before bedtime, dimming the lights, celebrating the New and Full Moons, and grounding barefoot in the grass. You start to see how magical life can be. How you are more present in the moment when you sit under a tree or by a body of water. You feel more calm and at peace. 

I get my best messages and wise advice from the Divine while I am sitting in nature at peace. Try it, and you will see.

Stop comparing

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“Find your authentic voice and neither of us will get trapped in this game!!!”

Jaguar Womban

Simply put, be the weirdo you desire to be. Be you! Be authentic! And be free of outside judgement and opinions. And both sides will feel joy, and peace and wholeness within themselves.

And remember. Always keep your unique light shining!

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About Jaguar Womban:

Jaguar Womban is a multidimensional healing artist, Medicine Womban and Visionary Mother of The WombNation.


She is an intuitive herbalist, ancestral channel, poet and teacher who shares ways to connect to Mother Earth using plant medicine and ceremony. In both her private TEAsessions and The Circle of Light womban circle, Jaguar teaches how to use the unique self-care ritual of WombSteaming as a Ritual of Prayer and a Sacred Tool to awaken our innate Womb Wisdom and Divine Internal Guidance System.

Jaguar’s journey into the mystical began when she was struck by a car while on foot and had a Death Experience (NDE) that left her in a coma with a diagnosis of Traumatic Brain Injury. This began her healing journey of relearning walking, talking, reading, writing and social skills. She was first shuffled through traditional western medicine and rehabilitation and after not attaining the healing she desired, sought out a path of her ancestral traditions. On her journey, she experienced a solo pilgrimage of spiritual and physical transformation and formed The WombNation to bring the power of these life-changing rituals and her unique Jaguar Medicine to womb carriers worldwide.

Jaguar is a Yoga Alliance certified Hatha Yoga instructor, Kemetic (Ancient Egyptian) Yoga instructor, Thai Yoga bodywork practitioner and attuned Healer. She has an MA in Creative Writing/Poetry and is a published, poet and powerful performer. In both her healing work and creative expression, she incorporates her study and practice of Shamanism, Sanskrit mantra, sound healing, breathwork, ancestral plant medicine, movement, and ceremony.


Published by Raven Scott

Raven Scott is an Empathic Spiritual Healer, Intl. Author, Podcaster, and Narc Abuse Soul Healing Coach in her Empath Healing Membership Community with the use of somatic healing exercises, Moon Rituals, Tarot, and Astrology & Human Design Reading.

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