Get Wise to the Tricks of the Covert Narcissist — They Can Break | Ep 103

“He collects women and, has everyone in his life brainwashed and manipulated; friends, therapists, accountants, and family. There’s not one person in his life that isn’t manipulated to be there.” — Jude Hotep Ep 103 on Empath and Narcissist podcast

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The covert narcissist can show up as a spiritual influencer, or a cult leader. And Jude’s personal experience presents evidence of the dark side of a “light worker” who manipulated her, took business ideas, surpassed her success, and used psychic abilities to tap into her energy, and broke down her health.

Today I share a conversation from the Empath and the Narcissist podcast with Jude Hotep

Get Wise to the Tricks of the Covert Narcissist – They Can Break You Jude Hotep Astrologer
And it’s more , at a choice level, that’s not a conscious level. It’s sort of like they’re making conscious choices to…player.captivate.fm

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Jude Hotep is The Goddess Astrologer. Jude is a Female Shaman, Astrologer, and Soul Coach. She does individual Astrology Readings and Shamanic Astrological coaching in her program, Alchemical Goddess with women around the globe. In, Alchemical Goddess you jailbreak your soul from the programs of the 3D, money scarcity, and fear of being seen and heard, unlocking your Divine Feminine genius. You know you were meant for big things. Now is the time. Book a complimentary Goddess Call here: http://thegoddessastrologer.com

Here are some key moments:

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Karmic cycle of people in our lives

[5:52] “I’m an astrologer and a sole coach, and. In my situation, I, , had past life after past life, after past life with this person, five of ’em that I know about. And he captured me and killed me in every past life. And in this life, I was meant to wake up and break that carmic loop.

And I, I did 26 months. It took, , for me to get out of it, but he came into my life in 2020, as if we were gonna have some romantic, amazing partnership. And he was the soulmate love and all of this. And, and yeah, very, very covert. My situation’s probably a little unique, more than so than other people’s, because there’s all kinds of narcissists.

One thing about my soul is my soul chose to have a bunch of them in my life. So my mother, three sisters on my dad’s side. Everybody in my mother’s family, my God, her, all of her relatives, her mother, dad, all of them. So, I mean, my gosh. And it was light. And then I had another, couple of men before this guy.”

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Real Brainwashing takes place with covert narcissist

[19:49] “because like you said, it’s the covertness of it. I think one of the things that I really woke up to with my mother was that, , I call it her a sleeper agent narcissist for a while there, but then I realized this was actually just the MO of narcissist.

But it was because she has this identity of good mother. And so because doing nice things for me or being so-called loving or that appearance of lovingness, , was part of that good mother identity, she would do those things. So it would really confuse me when all these other things didn’t add up and she was just a horrible.

Horrible person most of the time, and really in underhanded ways and subliminal ways is, is the way they really function a lot. They groom you and I’ve really found that unconscious narcissist groom as well, but it’s. Just so natural to them. It’s just a practiced behavior, and manipulation is just who they are.

It’s just a part of their nature, part of their characteristics and traits. So they don’t really know any other way. Not as in, oh, poor them, but as in that’s their op, their operating system.”

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Conscious Narcissists v unconscious toxic person

[38:50] “there’s a lot of damaged people out there that aren’t, , narcissists and they’re not choosing to wake up and they might, , I don’t believe narcissists ever do. That’s just my belief, in my opinion. , , but there are people who are damaged, who are really damaged and they’re doing abusive work in the world, and they could wake.

And it’s more , at a choice level, that’s not a conscious level. It’s sort of like they’re making conscious choices to do shitty things all the time. But at a soul level, they’re making these choices too. So, you know, this gets deep. It gets really deep.”

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Stop blaming yourself

[22:54] “People understand is blame. There was so many of these things on my journey where I was seeking help because I was, I was in these situations where my. Things don’t add up. Things don’t make sense. And what is this? And I need help and I’m not doing good.

And he was always doing these horrible, abusive things, but yet supposedly he loves me and, and all of these things. And, and it wasn’t just, oh, supposedly he loves me like a typical thing. He brainwashed me. He groomed me for about a year. He brainwashed me. , and I’ve studied a lot about brainwashing at this point now, and it was very much like the CIA would take somebody and brainwash them.”

Step into your inner authority

“You have your own autonomy in relationships. It’s unity through diversity to be your own self, to be your unique self, to have your own authority and intuition” [41:07]

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She takes us through the descriptions of each zodiac through the houses

[44:17] “ The soul comes in and it’s like First House Air is our identity. And then in Second House, Taurus, we have to have our own inner resources to create value in the world, but to feel valuable ourselves to be able to do that….

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Remember to Always keep your unique light shining. 

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Jude Hotep is The Goddess Astrologer. Jude is a Female Shaman, Astrologer, and Soul Coach. She does individual Astrology Readings and Shamanic Astrological coaching in her program, Alchemical Goddess with women around the globe. In, Alchemical Goddess you jailbreak your soul from the programs of the 3D, money scarcity, and fear of being seen and heard, unlocking your Divine Feminine genius. You know you were meant for big things. Now is the time. Book a complimentary Goddess Call here:  http://thegoddessastrologer.com

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Published by Raven Scott

As an international author, narcissist abuse recovering coach, Podcast host of Empath & Narcissist and creator of healing workshops. She is dispelling the narcissists' power one soul at a time.

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