5 Ways to Gain Back Your Power After Narcissist Abuse | Ep. #13. & 14.

I know the real pain and turmoil this manipulation can inflict on you.  

“Have you felt powerless when relating to another person? “

– Raven Scott
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How to Embrace your Queen Energy and Shed the Narcissist's Control with Lady Portia Empath And The Narcissist: Healing Guide from Abuse and PTSD

"Don’t give two shits about what anybody else thinks dance to the beat of your own drum. " – Marcus Hunter NeilLearn how to rid yourself of the toxic narcissist in your life and step up into your own queen power. Today I share a conversation with Marcus Hunter Neil pioneer drag queen Lady Portia Instagram: https://instagram.com/ladypandme (@ladypandme) Marcus is a MindValleys Irish Ambassador, Coach, TedTalker, Podcaster, Pioneer Drag Queen, Ambassador for the NSPCC Here are some key moments: Being with a narcissist is like Grey Gardens pretending to be glitterati while you’re living in a dilapidated house. “ No one sets out to actively be a narcissist and the victim of a narcissist. It just happens.“ It's the narcissists personality. Be your own wing man, defend yourself and take no mistreatment Relationship should be a want not a need No matter how much self work you do if you and the other person are not a fit you are not a fit Know your values know your worth. Because if you don’t have standards then you will shape shift for whomever you’re with. Do not put anybody even royalty on a pedestal because we are all human beings at the end of the day Here’s a test exercise can you list five things that you love about your narcissistic partner? if not then you are stuck in a scenario in the wrong environment and you’re making excuses each day as to why you will not break up with them.  Love yourself radically. Be secure enough in your own skin no matter what happens when you come out on the other side it will all be fine.  https://the-thriving-intuitive.captivate.fm/https-bit-ly-3xjlfvb (Trauma 2 Triumph FREE Ticket) Follow and DM me http://intagram.com/ravencottshow (@ravencottshow )"free gift" to get your FREE Draw Powerful Boundaries Workshop Better Help : https://betterhelp.com/empath (Empath get 10% off your first month) Empath & The Narcissist https://ravenscott.show/empath-and-the-narcissist (Book) : Support the Show Get Human Design Reading:https://ravenscott.show/shop ( SHOP ) Grab coaching sessions and more FREE Gifts on the website http://Ravenscott.show/blog (Ravenscott.show) Madhvi – https://madhvi.ca (Emotion Code FREE Inquiry Call) Music YouTube Library: Til I Let Go by Neffex Mentioned in this episode: Trauma 2 Triumph Summit https://the-thriving-intuitive.captivate.fm/https-bit-ly-3xjlfvb (Trauma 2 Triumph FREE Ticket)
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  2. Emotional Damage and Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse through the Emotion Code
  3. How to Relieve Anxiety from Narcissistic Abuse through your Gut with Camila Smith
  4. Why Empaths Attract Narcissists with Soulmate Coach Jeanne Sullivan Billeci
  5. 16 Self Care Tips for Libra Season – Bonus

1.No contact

[00:00:06] Something so precious stripped from your hands? And their words manipulated the situation so that you felt utterly powerless and a whole crowd of people were against you. And they were backing that scorpion, that Viper and all the while you’re just feeling so gut rents. That you, you felt like you couldn’t take your power back.

[00:00:42] You had lost everything that you loved.

[00:00:48] That was a vision that I had. I woke up weeping and crying because I felt that anger, I [00:01:00] felt the turmoil and I felt despair because in this vision, in this scenario, the vision and the dream that I had was so real and so vivid that something so precious was taken away from me. It was my right.

[00:01:20] It was my joy. I know it was just taken, manipulated out of evil. Backstabbing, it feels horrible to betrayed and it feels even a worse to be betrayed by someone that you thought loved you.

[00:01:48] Raven Scott: I had a vision and this vision involved myself. Having this beautiful brand new newborn baby and [00:02:00] somebody in my life taking her away from me, ripping her away and manipulating the scenario. I think this was so symbolic. To how we feel in our lives and what happens traumatically in the drama of our life and when dealing with a narcissist.

[00:02:20] And in that moment of when I woke, I was weeping and I was crying and I was yelling, I was angry. I felt all of the low, intense, but low vibrational emotions. Have you ever felt that in your real life? I know I have.

And I just wanted to come here to let you know that you are not powerless.

Raven Scott

The number one way to gain your power back is to eradicate that out of your life.

[00:02:53] That person may not deserve you constantly giving way giving and [00:03:00] giving. And they’re constantly taking it’s simple. I know, but yet it’s extremely difficult in practice because they’re using their words to bring you back in and apologize or turn whatever horrible action they’ve done to you into, blaming you for doing it.

[00:03:17] But I just want to say here that you have the power to take back your choices and your self sovereignty. You do not have to be in this situation with this person anymore. You have the right to stop talking to them. You have the right, and you don’t need to feel guilty about. Cutting out communications, breaking up with them, planning a safe, move and exit from if you’re living with them, I’m here to empower you and this vision came to me and I had to just share with you.

[00:03:52] I know the real feeling, but you can, you can conquer it and you can, eradicate them from your life. [00:04:00] That’s number one is no contact. I’m going to share with you two others.

2. Trust Yourself

The other way that you can gain your power back is to trust yourself, trust your gut and trust. Knowing that, you know, The right thing to do and to do it.

[00:04:18]

3. Self Care, self love, self empowerment

Number three, to gain your power back is to self-care love on yourself. Do what your inner child wants to do. That self care is going to give you the confidence and the power to be able to push forward and be strong and powerful to be that inner warrior as Kuan Yin is. To end the suffering in your own life, you need compassion for yourself.

[00:04:50] Those are the three I’m going to share with you today. Two others will be in our, my short videos coming up tomorrow. So don’t miss out, stay tuned. I make sure that [00:05:00] you’re subscribing. I really enjoy having you here and getting to know all of you. Post any questions you have. I will answer them here on the channel.

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Part 2

[00:07:43] Raven Scott: Hey, I’m back. Raven, Scott here, sharing with you how to gain your power back after being emotionally abused. And yesterday I shared with you three ways to do that. And today I’m going to share two more and then summarize all five of them. So [00:08:00] the fourth way to gain your power back .

4. Draw Boundaries

The fourth way is to draw boundaries and actively say ‘NO”. Quit that people pleasing that old bad habit that’s inside your gut because you’re making sure there’s no drama and everyone’s okay around you. That’s not going to happen. There’s always going to be drama. Whether people are. So stop people pleasing say no.

[00:08:27]

5. Not care how they react

And the a fifth way to gain your power. IS to not care how they react, do not care how they react, because it is not your responsibility. It is their responsibility on how they react. You don’t have to feel guilty. You don’t have to backpedal because they’re upset. That’s on them. Okay. So hold tight.

[00:08:51] So to summarize my friends to gain back your power. Number one is to go no contact [00:09:00] and or find a safe strategy to leave. Number two is to gain your confidence through working and elevating your self worth. Number three is to have compassion for yourself and become the true warrior that you are inside.

[00:09:16] Number four is to draw boundaries and to actively say no. And number five is to not care. don’t own their emotional reaction. this is Raven Scott here. I feel like me and you like these tips, subscribe to this channel for more inspirational, relatable tips.

How to master your boundaries:

  • Envision yourself saying NO
  • Feel the power of your self sovereignty
  • Dream of yourself saying NO
  • Step into your courage, pushing through fear, and taking action to say NO.
  • Be detached with the others emotional response (which may be like a child’s temper tantrum)

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when you are controlled by a narcissist you will never reach your true potential as a beautiful human being. There is hope though! You are here to elevate the collective and evolve in your souls journey. The dark egoistic people are drawn to your empathic light – like a moth to the light.

Raven Scott
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Raven Scott

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As an international author, narcissist abuse recovering coach, Podcast host of Empath & Narcissist and creator of healing workshops. She is dispelling the narcissists' power one soul at a time.

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