Boundaries!!! For Relationships – Don’t settle | Empath Weekly Cosmic Forecast S3 Ep 36

Empaths need to draw boundaries and persevere in their pursuits of their dreams. Human Design Gate Transits and Astrology for your Weekly Cosmic Forecast.

“You need to ask yourself ” Do I want to live like this the rest of my life?” Don’t settle!”

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Weekly Cosmic Weather Forecast

THEME: Boundaries for Relationships

Today I share the empaths cosmic weather and energy forecast assessing the Human Design Gates and Astrology planets activity.

Cosmic Weather April 16-21 Boundaries for relationships

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[00:02:03] Well, it has been a. A few couple of days. I know A lot of you’ve been giving me feedback and we’ve been talking back and forth about how intense this energy has been. And such epic things happening in the cosmic weather.

Full Moon in Libra

So the full moon. Is in Libra. I actually happened yesterday as you’re listening to this. But what happens with the full moon is you feel it 24 to 48 hours. And some of you extremely sensitive and paths.

[00:02:38] 72 hours before and after the full moon. Lunation so it occurs. Yesterday on the 16th yet, we’re still feeling the energy and you can still harness the powerful energy of the full moon in Libra. Now you want to look in your astrology chart. If you have an in front of you, to see where.

[00:02:59] Your [00:03:00] moon is, and what’s going on in Libra.

[00:03:02] For me personally, I have my moon in Libra. So this has been an extremely intense. Lead up into the full moon. Um, again, if you listening to the podcast every day as an avid listener, you know, I’ve had. A difficult time and had an intense argument with my partner. And Libra is all about partnerships. And I also have Pluto in Libra, so it was just a huge, intense,

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[00:03:27] Energy and maybe you’re feeling the same way, even if you don’t have these planets in your Zodiac. So we’re also in eclipse season and we’re in it’s portal right now. So expect the unexpected life is going to change and shape shift until the end of may. So let’s just get our little paddleboards out and your little buoys and dinghies and ride with the stream.

[00:03:56] On April 30th of 2022. We have a solar eclipse in Taurus and the themes expected around that with tourists being very much the ruler of money.

[00:04:11] Comfort hard work. We’re going to see themes about abundance and comfort security. In a food security, the earth, and maybe even a natural event for the planet. So the next eclipse is then May 15th. Of 2022 and it’s a lunar eclipse. So with this full moon in Libra, it’s calling you to release the judgments you have for loving and hating people, situations and things.

[00:04:44] For you to find balance. Of your love. And hate relationships with. Fill in your blank for me? It’s relationships. For you, it may be something else and release these [00:05:00] narcissists, trying to snuff your light out of your life. Let go and let God. To allow abundance to flow in all aspects of your life.

[00:05:10] You can be healing and feeling at the same time. I believe healing. Isn’t a destination. It is a journey. So accept it. Embrace it holding your life best and your paddle. And embrace yourself as you break down and stop the cycle of negative patterns. To heal. And as you reconstruct your life.

[00:05:37] You want to journal all of these emotions? You’re feeling out right now around the full moon. all of these things that you wish to release from your body. Just write it all down with a lead pencil on paper, then you’re going to burn that paper safely. You’re going to release and transmute that to the universe and the divine surrender it up.

Do meditation practices reflect out in nature, lay in the grass. Go to a tree. Reflect inward and love and hold yourself. Remember your soul is on a journey.

[00:05:58] And then wash yourself [00:06:00] clean and new. If you need a lesson, there is wisdom in the trees. So allow your spirit to fly free home to your higher self. Do meditation practices reflect out in nature, lay in the grass. Go to a tree. Reflect inward and love and hold yourself. Remember your soul is on a journey.

Sun is in gate 3 – Ordering

[00:06:23] And all the pain and sorrow is for you to grow and choose the light. Choose the love. Forgiveness. Forgive yourself. You are not perfect. You went through those struggles to be strong. So embrace your strength, embrace your power and your light. And your empathy. So this week in that cosmic weather, the sun is in gate three, between April 16th through April 21st.

[00:06:52] And this gate is called Ordering. In the I Ching, it is called “difficulty at the beginning. “And this [00:07:00] gate is in the sacral center. If you’re looking at your human design chart, take a look in the sacral center and see if you have gate three circled in red. That means it’s defined. So you’re going to feel this more intensely and in a more personal way in your life.

[00:07:15] For those who you don’t have it defined, you’re going to feel it more in a collective way, in your community, in the world globally. So what this gate does is it responds to work that brings change without limits. This is a vital for transformation and creating a new world. Having this evolution in order allows it to proof.

it tests what is worth integrating.

[00:07:41] It like it tests, it really like giving it proof that it’s worth integrating. So, yeah, it is a struggle. You will feel resistance and harder. It’ll be like harder if you’re beginning something. And so you have to evaluate, do I persevere and continue [00:08:00] on just showing up in discipline? No matter what for the long game. And it, it will prove worthwhile.

[00:08:08] You know, or it will prove that you need to release it. So continue to bring joy to your projects and just keep showing up. Bring joy and expansion rather than panic and lack of energy, these things that need. Big impacts these projects that you’re dreaming of. They don’t happen overnight. This is the long game you guys, this is the long game.

[00:08:31] We haven’t even entered into the incarnation cross in 2027. It is 2022. So we have time. You have time in your life. So don’t feel especially you open, rooted, loves. I don’t feel that you have to get it done right now, or it has to accomplish now, or something has to come to fruition right now. So just continue to show up.

[00:08:53] Bring your expensive joy and energy to the project. So for this sun gate [00:09:00] in three, these are some affirmations for you this week. I accept and embrace limitations. And love what I’m doing right now.

Gate 3 Affirmations

[00:09:11] I trust that what I’m experiencing right now will perfectly test my creation and support what I intend.

Journal Prompts

Some journal questions for you in your quiet time.:

  • Are there areas in your life where you feel resistance or hitting blocks, identify those areas and see if it’s something that you need to continue to persevere in as worthwhile or evaluate and ask your intuition. Hey, should I just like stop hitting my head against the wall and release it? Right. What do you need to accept?
  • And what do you need to release?
  • And then do you sense the timing isn’t right. For something that you want? Like not your ego, like yes, of course we all want something right away. Right. Our ego’s like, it needs to happen [00:10:00] now. But is your soul saying, Hey, it’s just not quite the right timing. Like you’re going to be so much better at this. If you keep showing up and just practicing and trying. In five years. Right. So just take a look at that and evaluate that in your quiet time.
  • Do you sense that the timing of all this, like, do you need to show up and persevere or is it time to let go? So trust divine timing.
  • Can you trust divine timing? is another thing great to journal about.

Earth is in gate 50 – Values

[00:10:32] The earth is in gate 50, and this gate is called values in the I Ching this is the cauldron. And it is a spleen center and this gate is the love gate. The values of the tribe are communicated through love, especially with this full moon. In the quote, unquote can’t pick aside Libra. It’s very important to evaluate your values and to know which [00:11:00] boundaries to make.

Evaluate your boundaries, make them and hold to them.

[00:11:01] And then make them. Make them and hold to them, make them not paper thin like toilet paper, but make them thick as steel. Like Superman’s Cape. So this gate is tribal and it’s in Libra slash Scorpio Zodiac, which is so interesting with the node south node being in Scorpio and the moon being in Libra this week. It’s just.

[00:11:26] Incredibly how it all aligns. And as Zodiac rules. This, this gate and everything, it rules, laws and rules. It’s all about rules. For the tribe. And we know. It’s a, those rules and laws are a product of the values to keep the tribe safe. So if you have this gate defined, you typically may be.

[00:11:53] Honestly, evaluate yourself. You sacrifice your own needs for others and even, those [00:12:00] others who you shouldn’t sacrifice for, who are toxic, who are abusive towards you. And who are taking advantage of your love. So with full moon. And Pluto in the gate, 60, which is activating and, is squared to the moon.

It’s now as the time this energy literally is here in the palm of your hands. To release. Those who don’t appreciate you.

[00:12:18] It’s now as the time this energy literally is here in the palm of your hands. To release. Those who don’t appreciate you. Who don’t reciprocate your love. For those who continually manipulate and abuse your love.

Gate 50 Affirmations

[00:12:35] So for this gate, the affirmation is: I establish the rules. Of my reality.

[00:12:45] I take care and nourish myself so that I may take care of others.

[00:12:51] Everything I do for others. I do for myself. I rule with self-love. And then love [00:13:00] freely.

Journal Prompts

[00:13:01] So things to journal about here in this gate is:

  • what new rules do you need to play by?
  • What new boundaries do you need to create?
  • What person do you wish to shape, shift into to create the life of your dreams?
  • Do you truly love yourself?
  • Do you need to work more on your self love relationship?
  • What can you do to nurture yourself with discipline moving forward?
  • Do you feel safe in love?

Pluto activating in Gate 60 Acceptance

[00:13:31] And Pluto. I have to just bring this up because this is such an intense activation right now. Pluto. In gate 60, the gate of acceptance. With the full moon it’s squaring up to Pluto and a square is a hard, stressful aspect. Kind of like a, Hey, wake up, slap you in your face aspect. So Pluto, the planet of death and rebirth.

[00:13:55] We’ll feel a deeper, emotional process to our relationships due to [00:14:00] Libra being Zodiac. You know, the Zodiac partnerships. A strong process of releasing strong repressed emotions will come out in the areas of love. Art and beauty. Gate 60 is the gate of acceptance in the I Ching its limitation. And it’s in the root center and of Capricorn energy at Capricorns are conservation.

[00:14:26] So, if you have this gate defined, you will feel an unrelenting desire to experience personal growth and change in a very practical way. You may ask yourself. I don’t want to live like this for the rest of my life. And that’s perfectly fine. That’s what you need. The inspiration and manifestation they happen simultaneously. And Jupiter is your boat toward expansion while activating with Neptune, right on top of each other, guiding you.

[00:14:58] To dream big [00:15:00] and to create life, the life of your dreams. Being swept away by the water of pleasure and healing allow for that. Cause you deserve all of the pleasure and healing that you desire. And then it’s interesting. This has aspects of the north node, which is in gate 23. In the throat in Taurus and this gate is assimilation.

[00:15:24] It’s a real foundational game changer, a new foundation full of individuals coming together to help. This is so amazing to see. And I witnessing so much of it and the news, the, the old regimes of tyranny, colonizers monarchy. Extreme religion, racism control of the female body and the attacks on the LGBTQ community with trans gender affirming surgery being against the law in some states.

[00:15:53] They’re all giving their final fight against the new earth and the younger generations who are here to bring forth. [00:16:00] Change and inclusiveness and beauty.

[00:16:03] They know that the minorities are becoming the majority together United for their freedom to live their life free of discrimination and judgment. And the south node end gate 43 is supportive this insight in the Ajna.

[00:16:21] In his highest expression is the power to see an alternative to old ways of doing things and to create a new empowered result.

[00:16:31] Now, all of this is choice and all of this is freewill and up for us to choose. To either operate in the higher frequency or the highest good of all inclusively or the lowest frequency. And maybe justify the means for their ends, right? They’re justifying their means. Of changing these laws. For their end.

[00:16:56] However, if it’s not the right timing. [00:17:00] You know, these things may not come to full fruition or they may fizzle out. So it’s important. To make sure that the timing. Of all of these things and choices. And what’s happening. Is correct. You wait for that intuition to tell you if this is the right timing to say or do something.

[00:17:21] To make change and to continue. So the theme for today, like I said, was boundaries. And I think it’s really important for us to look at the boundaries that we have. To look at. Our partnerships. And business in love and friends. And look at how much are you giving and how much are they taking? And is it 50, 50, 60, 40?

[00:17:46] A hundred and 0 90 10. And really, like I said, just dream big. Shape shift into who you truly want to be. And it’s not selfish. It’s not [00:18:00] self-serving to love yourself. First. It is expansive. It is abundant. To love yourself first, because then your cup. Overflows as I talk about in a podcast coming up in a few weeks with Yara.

Cycle is Ending Poem

[00:18:14] So I just want to end with a poem that I wrote. A cycle is ending. A new one’s beginning. Where soul’s not putting up with the control and tyranny of others are trending. Never again, will we chase love only to be neglected? Never again, will we take the blame for their failures and defections? Never again, will they cut us down with their lies?

[00:18:43] Never again, will we be deceived by their disguise? I’m done. We’re done. A cycle is ending. A new has begun. Never again, will we allow there lies to prevail? Never again, will [00:19:00] our worth be based on if we fail. Never again, will we apply? And please others selfish, deeds. Never again, will we snuff our light only to supply their greed?

[00:19:15] I’m done. We’re done. A cycle is ending. A new has begun. I fly my white flag to the ego within. I surrender my need for justice. I surrender my desire for revenge. My faith and the law of karma is strong. I no longer believe I can fix them. I no longer care to hide their wrongs. They say the best revenge is to release the hate.

[00:19:47] Give no heed to take the bait. And a heal my own. Self-worth. Do you dear friend, believe this is true. I fear the quest is up to you. [00:20:00] As for me. I’m done. We’re done. A cycle is ending. A new has begun.

[00:20:09] Thank you for listening. Take care of yourself today. And remember. Always keep your unique light shining.

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We truly want every single soul to know that they are supported and empowered in their soul’s journey. You are unique and are here for a particular purpose …
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How to master your boundaries:

  • Envision yourself saying NO
  • Feel the power of your self sovereignty
  • Dream of yourself saying NO
  • Step into your courage, pushing through fear, and taking action to say NO.
  • Be detached with the others emotional response (which may be like a child’s temper tantrum)

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  • We join together and share what’s on our hearts and teach wisdom for your heart’s nourishment during these trying times. 
  • We host live Q&A on anything spiritual, tarot, human design, or moonbeam related. 

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Raven Scott is providing women, who are feeling lost and alone in their journey, a community to kick ass as we become empowered together while healing from childhood trauma, abusive relationships, or plain old life, and awaken to rewrite our karmic story. Through astrology, self care, human design, & intuition.
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