Empaths Rising: From Narcissistic Abuse to Peaceful Empowerment Season Finale

Season Finale

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[00:00:00] Welcome to the Empath and the Narcissist podcast, where you regain your sparkle back after narcissistic abuse. I am your host Raven Scott,

[00:00:13] Raven: a trauma informed spiritual mentor, certified meditation teacher, and human design expert.

Hello, beautiful empaths. Hello, beautiful souls. Welcome to a seasoned finale of our Empath Healing Podcast, empath and the narcissist, healing with human design where we've journeyed together through the darkness of narcissistic abuse, towards the light of empowerment and healing.

Today I sit here with a heart full of gratitude and excitement and a bit of a bittersweet like I don't wanna let go. As I bid you farewell and venture into this next chapter in my life and embark on a new adventure. It is really an old adventure, but through this podcast, through speaking out and through the last couple years of soul searching and healing, and then sharing my healing, I have been empowered and come to this place where I can return back to my roots, back to my origin, back to my bachelor's.

Degree of interior design with a renewed confidence, with a renewed sense of self. , so that there is no doubt that I am not a B class designer. I am not a less than never gonna fit in, never gonna be like top tier quality. All of those doubts, all of those insecurities that were originally in my head that the narcissist amplified.

they're cleared, they're gone, and they're still gonna be there. And I'm gonna say silencio, Bruno to those, if you've watched Luca, the Disney movie, because they're just automatic negative thoughts that we're all prone to. But I'm so excited to embark on this new adventure. I see. This grand partnership with my husband, who's been in the home construction business this whole time.

I've been healing for the last 10 years and it really is, , a beautiful partnership and adventure we're gonna be setting on together. And I've been resisting, resisting. We actually started something in 2018 and I just felt like, no, I can't. Work with him. He's too stubborn, he's too this, he's too that.

But that was also a bit of my projection and a bit of my stubbornness out onto that partnership. But before we part ways together on this podcast, I just wanna let you know that I will be creating another podcast for and blog for my interior design business that is called Dream Home Remodel, and I'll put the link to that in the show notes if you love home decor and have interest in that as well. But before we part ways, I also wanted to share a powerful message of role Model Energy line six, hope and Inspiration with each and every one of you.

As empaths, we endured the weight of emotional manipulation of gaslighting and the constant feeling of being belittled by the narcissist in our lives, and sometimes by that horrible voice in our own head. Yet here we are, we're still standing, and we're still strong, and we're ready to step into the future.

Filled with peace and self-empowerment. This is the opportunity right now, the next 18 months for you to grab hold of that self-empowerment and to take the risk and you will be rewarded during this north node in Aries time.

I want you to know that you are not alone in this journey. There are so many of. Wonderful people out there to help you along to heal. There are loads of forums to talk through, and your journey of healing has really touched my heart whenever you've reached out, and it will touch the hearts of many, just like my healing journey has touched the hearts of so many.

And as we step out into leaders, either you have a line five and you're just spreading that, uh, energetic energy of healing and life lessons because maybe you have three in there, three slash five of, uh, role model, leadership line six, role model line for that collaborator and that person that's putting everything together and all the pieces and all the networkings.

All together for everyone, uh, everything you've learned, line ones through your investigating and everything that you have contemplated and read about and become wise about for all the line twos

when I started this podcast. I was also on a path of healing from the clutches of a narcissistic relationship. It was right after hashtag me too. It was right after I spoke out on social media and literally just posted a picture and wrote a caption that called my Ex out about how he sexually abused me in our consensual relationship, and I was blasphemed.

By his mother. I was threatened and berated by him to cease and desist and I felt like stubborn, right? There's the good part of being stubborn is no, I will not be silenced anymore. Like this is my truth. This is my story, and I do have evidence from a therapist who diagnosed me that I was sexually abused.

And I wasn't lying through therapy either. So this is the thing that's like the narcissist is always trying to make you question your worth, your truth, the reality. But your reality is your reality. His reality is maybe I didn't speak up enough. I. Maybe he's horrible at reading body language. Maybe he's completely addicted to sex and had no idea that he was pushing my boundaries past me saying no, and that I didn't really enjoy it, but I was doing it out of people pleasing and owing to him and all the weird under toes of emotional abuse and manipulation that you just feel like you gotta give them everything for them to be happy.

But I know. That you are, because I have questioned my worth, you may be questioning your worth. I question my abilities, reason why I took so long to even embrace this incredibly easy talent that I have of interior designing and my abilities and my capacity. I question my capacity to break free from the toxic patterns, and even so writing the book, doing the podcast, and.

All of the things, all the efforts, the audible book of helping others, it is still binding me to my past because I'm still talking about all the time and I thought, why I don't wanna talk about narcissists forever. And that's true. None of us wanna think about our abuser forever. We don't wanna be healing for forever.

We wanna be able to heal and move on. And as a role model, this is what I'm sharing with you, is. My transition, this is what's happening with me, is I'm breaking free from the toxic patterns, from the horrible nightmares that I'm still having as I'm revisiting and talking and retalking with everyone on the podcast that I just can't anymore, right?

Sometimes you just have to stop talking about it to be able to move forward in your next chapter. Like one of our amazing guests on episode, fill in the blank edit, talked about. You cannot be driving and driving while looking in the rear view mirror the whole time and even serving you in this podcast.

That's what I've been doing. But as I've shared my stories and you've shared your stories with me, and our guests have shared their stories and experiences and insights together, we've grown this podcast to numbers and heights that I would've never imagined. And you may be thinking, you are crazy to be giving this away.

You're quitting. You're quitting too early. And it may be, but my line too is saying, you know what? If it's too hard and it's not easy, like it hasn't been easy psych psychologically lately, then it's not for you. And that's why I have to listen to my intuition and my two line. I have created so much content here.

You don't, you don't need any more new content. You can go back to the. This past season and this season before and gain so much knowledge and immense wisdom and insight on gaining your strength, on breaking free from the narcissist. And I've witnessed the immense strength and resilience of each and every one of you that has reached out to me that I have coached and that I have listened to as a guest on the podcast.

And our community has been a beacon of support and understanding and love, and I don't want that support and love to ever end. But I am going to be just submitting once a month emails versus twice a week because I'll be shifting all my energy over to the interior design.

As I embark on my next chapter in life, I wanna leave you with a message of hope. No matter how dark your past has been or how relentless the narcissist influence might feel, you have the power to create a life free from their haunting grip, just as I have, you've witnessed through this whole entire process, and now my final releasing of the grip, and to take that leap of faith, believe in yourself.

And remember, you are worthy of love, respect, and happiness.

Embrace the journey of self-discovery. Embrace the power of setting boundaries and saying quote unquote, no. Two toxicity. Embrace the unknown. Take those risks as it will be rewarding and lead you closer to your dreams now, especially with Aries supporting you. The North node in Aries. Trust your intuition.

It is your superpower that will guide you towards your peace filled life.

I've learned that healing is not linear, and it's okay to have setbacks, to stumble and to feel vulnerable, but remember each step, no matter how small is progress. And each breadcrumb we follow just as this breadcrumb I'm following now where I'm like, I don't wanna let go, but I need to lean in full trust into this next step on the Invisible bridge over the dark chasm to my dreams.

It's part of the process. It's part of your progress. So be gentle with yourself. You deserve kindness and compassion, and be curious for the next step.

As we part ways for now, please know that you'll always have a special place in my heart. I'll carry your stories and your triumphs and your resilience with me as I step into the unknown, and I hope you'll carry the same love and strength in your heart supporting one another on your healing journey.

Thank you for being a part of this transformation edit. Thank you for being a part of this transformative experience, for sharing your vulnerability, for listening and tuning in every week, every episode, and for being the guiding light in my life. Remember, this isn't a final goodbye. It's merely a new beginning.

Now it's time for all of us to spread our wings and soar. Embrace your worth, embrace your power, and embrace your destiny. You have everything within you to break free and live the life you've always dreamed of as we part ways today. Let's take a deep breath in together. And exhale, any remaining self-doubt.

Inhale the energy of bright and limitless future.

And exhale out that voice in your head. Silencio Bruno, I believe in you. We believe in each other.

Farewell my fellow empaths. May your hearts be filled with love your souls. Be at peace, and your dreams become your realities. Until we meet again, remember, you are strong. You are worthy, and you are destined for greatness.

, if you wish to listen to me and are in decision paralysis in your home improvement project and just need inspiration and , head on over to the Dream home remodels, home design, inspiration, and professional advice podcast.

Where I dish out the projects I'm working on and pro tips on helping you decorate and remodel your home.

[00:14:57] Neffex: Losing time, I'm fading fast. I just wanna make it last. Try to let go of the past. I close my eyes, embrace the blast, sleepless nights and headache stack restlessness to hell and back. What's my purpose? But do I grab a slippery surface? A heart attack, and sometimes you just.

There's something that'll have what you need, what you need. We're broken. It's tragic. We're not all elastic, but maybe there's magic. Believe you could have it, and I know of sadness, the anxious syman, the infinite vastness of all that is blackness.