Separating Your Self Worth From What a Narcissist May Think of You S5|Ep33

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“Your self worth is independent  of your accomplishments.

So Go ahead! Fail forward.”

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“Life with a narcissist can over time erode your sense of worth and self-value, but you mustn’t forget who you are.” – Raven

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Don’t let any more time pass by without taking control over your self worth independent of any Narcissist’s approval! This episode will remind you to raise your Empath Aura Shield and why it is necessary to your peace of mind.

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  • This is an episode recorded from the weekly empowerment letters I write to my newsletter.
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Separating Your Worth From What a Narcissist May Think of You Sparkle Reminder

Welcome to the Empath and the Narcissist podcast, where you regain your sparkle back after narcissistic abuse. I am your host Raven Scott, 

a trauma informed spiritual mentor, certified meditation teacher, and human design expert. I’m empowering empaths three times a week in recovery and healing from narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma through human design, self-care, mindfulness advice, and expert interviews. This is season five

Episode 33 separating your worth from what a narcissist may think of. You. This is a letter I’m reading to you from the weekly. Sparkle reminders. I send out to you every Saturday to empower you and to remind you that you are. powerful you are amazing. And all you need to do is find your spark in yourself. 

And shine your light out. To dispel the darkness around you. And to dispel the darkness of the narcissist. 

So enjoy this love letter. And make sure you join the community so you can receive these every week into your inbox. 

Dear Empath, I know school and culture, and even your parents have told you for so long, your accomplishments gauge how well you do in life. Well, that may be true. You have to separate that. Success does not define your worth. Self-worth is how you value yourself, not how others think of you, not how much money you have, and Definit.

Not on how accomplished you are. It is based off of your ability to breathe and exist. If you scoff at that, you’re not alone. I didn’t even think I should exist anymore at one point. If that’s you, you can get help. And if you’re in an emergency and having suicidal thoughts, dial nine 80. You can start to repair your self-worth healing journey by thinking and journaling about what you are grateful for.

Just sitting there with your millions of cells in your body, being superheroes and keeping you healthy and alive is a miracle all on its own.

In addition, you have an energy body that floats and an orbs around your physical. That once you are aware, you can protect from negative energy.

What I mean is that you are safe when you shield yourself with an empath or a protection shield with your awareness and to block out the lies and the manipulation from the narcissist. Your thoughts and fears about not succeeding, they’re just false alarm. . And of course the narcissist feeds those lies, and so it takes that 200% effort to become aware to block their lies, and then to start rewriting and blocking your own lies because you alone can be your own self bully.

I know I can relate. The narcissist or your abuser has filled your mind with self-doubt, lies, and fear. This is all dark energy that is clearly. Designed to keep you stuck as their possession under their control so that they feel good about themselves and they can always have a constant supply of attention.

Dear Empath, I say no more!

Like when Neo in the Matrix throws the hundreds of bots swarming on his crouched body off of him. Flew off into the sky and he flew into the sky. You must believe you are worthy to rise. You must see that you’re talented. You are unique. You have special passions no one else has.

And that’s not a weird thing. That’s a beautiful thing. Let your unique freak flag wave be you. Be real. Be authentic. And your self-worth will strengthen, and a narcissist lies will sicken you and you will repel them and their control and their fear and lies. What is one step you can do to strengthen your self-worth?

Be bold enough to look yourself in the eyes, in the mirror and say, I love you. I know things, and I deserve what I. I deserve to have a voice. Do this daily until you truly believe it. Maybe it takes a month, maybe more. So what are you waiting for? Go on, fail forward. Everything is just like learning how to ride a bike no matter what age you are.

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Raven Scott is an Empathic Spiritual Healer, Intl. Author, Podcaster, and Narc Abuse Soul Healing Coach in her Empath Healing Membership Community with the use of somatic healing exercises, Moon Rituals, Tarot, and Astrology & Human Design Reading.

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